The metrics of training compassionate leaders

150323 More compassionate in one dayIt’s difficult to measure the direct effect of teaching your leaders to be more compassionate—yet that which is not measured, seldom gets done.

From McKinsey Quarterly:

Half of those who responded to a McKinsey survey last year told us that they see organizational capability building as one of their top strategic priorities, but many said their companies could do better. When we asked respondents about their companies’ biggest challenge with training programs, we found that the lack of effective metrics appeared to be a growing concern.

The constant tug-of-war between soft and hard skills training makes the problem even more difficult.

If you see a need to improve process in a technical area like sales protocols or time management, that’s likely to be viewed as a higher priority than teaching your managers to be more empathetic.

It shouldn’t be.

The problem is not one of higher or lower value—both skills are critical to the success of your company; the problem is one of metrics. It’s easier to measure the return of hard skills training, especially in the short-term. Soft skills require a different, more qualitative and long-term assessment to understand their true value.

In one day I can come to your organization and teach your leaders how to be more compassionate. We’ll also talk about how to be more courageous and wise at the same time—but I wouldn’t expect to see a spike in sales or productivity at the end of your next quarter as a result.

You can measure the qualitative effects rather quickly. A few weeks after the workshop:

  • Do people feel their supervisors are giving them the attention they need?
  • Are managers more open to feedback?
  • Are managers responsive to employee concerns?
  • Are managers listening?
  • Is there clear follow-up on promises?

Should all of this produce results on your profit and loss statement?

Well, yes—eventually.

Over the long haul you might see better employee retention. You might see a decline in lost or wasted time. You could experience a decline in employee complaints and an increase in overall levels of engagement.

Of course to really see the direct ROI for your training expenditure, you’ll still need to connect the dots with some kind of cause and result qualitative analysis. Or—you trust the overwhelming mass of data that says creating a more compassionate workplace produces all these benefits.

If you see a decline in production after soft-skills training—that may be a problem. That doesn’t necessarily mean you wasted your money, it may mean we stirred the hornet’s nest and simply made people aware that they’re working in an untenable environment.

Or—it could mean your leadership team is rotten to the core!

It’s no secret that people are not staying as long as they used to. It’s also no secret that people are disengaged in staggering percentages. Some experts have had a hard-time correlating those facts with a slight uptick in production—I haven’t.

Production is rising because of automation and technology. But how long can we sustain that curve and more important—how much more productive could we be if we improve retention and engagement?

That’s why investment in soft-skills training for your leaders is crucial. Companies that make this investment create a significant competitive advantage.

I can teach your leaders to be more compassionate, courageous and wise in one day. That one day will produce returns for years.

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In personal and professional Mastery, the leader must lead by example

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Jim Yong Kim, president of the World Bank said:

“No matter how good you think you are as a leader, my goodness, the people around you will have all kinds of ideas for how you can get better. So for me, the most fundamental thing about leadership is to have the humility to continue to get feedback and to try to get better – because your job is to try to help everybody else get better.”

For this dynamic to work successfully everyone, including those at the top, must be committed to continual self-improvement.

It may seem I’m obsessed to a degree with “self” improvement. Some people challenge me on that point. They’ll say that too much emphasis on self-improvement is, well, selfish.

I say that self-improvement is the least selfish thing you can do for others. As you improve yourself, you become more valuable to others. You become a greater resource to your team, your organization and your community.

When everyone in an organization is committed to self-improvement- to personal and professional mastery, then the entire organization becomes stronger, better- more productive, innovative and progressive.

At the risk of beating the dead horse even more, even a small improvement in each individual produces an exponential return.

I remember a story I once heard about a basketball coach who was trying to improve a struggling team. One of his first observations is that they were, as a team, lousy free-throw shooters.

Many coaches in this case would focus either on the top shooters and try to get more production there, or would commit a large effort to improving the weakest shooters. Instead, this coach set a goal. Every player would improve just one percent.

Together, the gains of just one percent far exceeded what could reasonably be expected by trying to extract bigger gains from just a few players.

It worked!

With each player contributing something, the overall performance of the team skyrocketed.

When each individual commits to the concept of personal mastery and continual self-improvement, the team and the organization become much more powerful.

If you want to lead and inspire others, start with you. This is one area where leadership it’s essential to provide an example from the top down.

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SPECIAL POST: Grow A Pair…I visit with bestselling author & speaker Larry Winget

I join my dear friend and mentor, best selling author and The Pitbull of Personal Development, Larry Winget on his Grow A Pair TV show!

As you can see, we’re having a great time- and you will too as we talk about discipline, perseverance and how to be a genuine leader…

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The real difference between a leader and a manager

Here’s an excerpt from THE SENSEI LEADER – Save 20% –– order here!

150213 manager leader “One reason corporate and governmental bureaucracies stagnate is the assumption by line executives that given their rank and authority, they can lead without being leaders. They cannot. They can be given subordinates, but they cannot be given a following. “A following must be earned.” ~John W. Gardner

The Sensei must earn the authority vested in him by his students…

There are plenty of talented martial artists that make lousy teachers. I believe you’ll find the same problem everywhere leadership is important- especially in business and politics. There is an epidemic of people infecting positions of authority who may have outstanding domain knowledge or even a record of high performance in other positions, but still make lousy leaders. This leads us to the tired debate over leadership versus management. Managerial skills are by nature more technical and functionary. Those skills are very useful in managing process.

Leadership skills are those that make you more effective in your relationships with- people.

Management always refers to a position of authority- a title. That title or position is almost always conferred by superiors or advisors and may or may not involve input from subordinates. You can claim authority simply by acquiring a title and convincing others that you know more than they do. You can dictate a strict culture full of perfunctory rituals that reinforce your authority, status and position. You can attain a position of authority by being a jerk! You can increase authority through political maneuvering, lying and cheating. Leadership, on the other hand, is always dependent on acknowledgement from subordinates and peers. No followers- no leader! Authority is always limited by the willingness of the people under you to share their talents and abilities.

A manager may have the authority to dictate the performance of certain tasks, it takes a genuine leader to inspire the best performance in others.

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Leadership is sharing: Share the Power

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Here’s another excerpt from Jim’s newest book, The Sensei Leader, on track for release in March!

Your own power- your effectiveness as a leader, only expands through sharing.

“…power is an ‘expandable pie,’ not a fixed sum; effective leaders give power to others as a means of increasing their own power. Effective leaders do not see power as something that is competed for but rather as something that can be distributed to followers without detracting from their own power.” ~Shelley A. Kirkpatrick and Edwin A. Locke from The Leader’s Companion by J. Thomas Wren

There is nothing more inspiring to your followers than your willingness to help them become more powerful.

Once again, power is your ability or capacity to act or perform effectively. The source of all human power resides in body, mind and spirit. You’d think this would be common sense- you’ve got to take care of yourself in body, mind and spirit if you want to be happy and successful or to perform to your full potential.

To  share the power, you’ve got to share the source. You’ve got to provide the support and resources for people to develop in body, mind and spirit.

So why do so many leaders ignore one or more of these areas in their own daily lives and in the lives of the people who serve their organizations, especially mind and spirit?

I’ll tell you why- it’s because it’s difficult to measure an exact return on investment in these areas. What can’t be measured doesn’t get done, right?

The problem is, the negative impact you get when you don’t invest in these areas is not just measurable, it’s frightening. The cost of not sharing the power- of not developing people in these source areas, shows up in diminished performance, disengagement, health care expenses and lost time. Losses are in the billions every year.

Support the body…

Healthy people are more productive. They use less sick time. Invest in proactive health initiatives and you reduce health insurance costs and claims.

Support the mind…

Support your people emotionally and invest in personal development. People who are supported emotionally are again more productive. They are more engaged and far less likely to waste time. They’re also far more creative and better equipped to solve problems and deal with adversity.

Support the spirit…

This is where you share vision, meaning and purpose. You want more engaged people? Give them a clear purpose and share a meaningful vision that works for both the individual and the organization. This is how you increase the spiritual capital that you see as dedication and loyalty.

If you want to lead a powerful organization, you’ve got to share the power. You do this by developing people- in body, mind and spirit.

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SPECIAL GUEST POST: 8 Leadership Lessons from a Marine Corps Drill Instructor

150204 Earl Breon GuestSpecial Guest Post today by Earl Breon, Jr.- lead author and founder of The Layman Leadership blog…

Those gravelly voiced, spit projecting, smokey bear hat wearing men and women who made your life hell for so many weeks were actually sages in disguise and I bet you never realized it. I know I didn’t until many years later when a buddy and I were talking about some of the stuff our Drill Instructors would say. Now, I went to Marine Corps Recruit Depot Parris Island (where real Marines are made) and he went to MCRD San Diego (Hollywood Marines) but our DIs had a lot of the same wisdom to share. Here are the eight that are actually safe for public cons:umption.

The only bad mistake is one you make twice!

This is one of the first phrases out of my Senior Drill Instructors mouth upon receiving to the new platoon. Make no mistake, he demanded perfection in every little detail but when you messed up you had better learn from it. You will always make mistakes.

The person who wins is the one that makes mistakes, learns and adapts his strategy.

Dark green, light green, we are all green!

Many people don’t consider the military a bastion of diversity, but it really is. Heck, one of my boot-camp friends was a Muslim. I’ll never forget when I had to stay back with him so he could roll out his rug and pray. It was so foreign to me at the time but it is one of the reasons I make sure people throw in the word “extremist” when talking about Muslim terrorists.

Race, religion, or economic background don’t matter, we are all green! Feel free to pick your own color or logo for your organization. Just be unified.

Yes, Sir? No, Sir? Say something!

Communicate, communicate, communicate! There seemed to be no greater offense than not communicating. If you were asked a question and didn’t answer, and answer quickly, this was the phrase that followed rather quickly. It was usually said much more, hmmm, colorfully than this.

Communicate, and when you are communicated with then be sure to respond.

Know our history and know your future!

Marine Corps history was a huge focus during boot-camp. That’s right; it wasn’t all running and learning to kill. They taught us history and other topics, as well. Granted, they were all military oriented. But, history was by far the most important.

When you understand what those before you have endured it frames your perspective on your current situation. When you know that approximately 520 Marines and Sailors repelled an entire Japanese fleet for 15 days (Wake Island) then a jammed copy machine doesn’t seem like such a big deal.

Act like you have a sense of purpose!

This phrase came out anytime somebody looked lazy or lost. There is no room for lazy and lost in highly successful organizations. You must believe you have a sense of purpose and contribute.

If you don’t have a sense of purpose right now then act like you do and one will show itself pretty quickly.

When one of you fails, all of you fail!

Teams do not thrive on individual success. Sure, there may be one or two with more talent than others but teams fail or succeed together. There is no way around it. Even when you think of somebody like Lebron James in Cleveland, yes, he carries the team but without the four other men on the court he could not beat five men.

A chain really is only as strong as its weakest link. Build each link to be as strong as possible.

Sunday to Sunday and chow to chow. That is how you make it through anything!

Take life in smaller more manageable sections. Yes, plan big and plan long term but don’t miss a turn because you are focused on the finish line. It is easy to get distracted by final results and miss crucial opportunities along the way.

Break life and life goals down into smaller, more manageable steps and stay flexible enough to incorporate new opportunities along the way.

Stay motivated!

Proper motivation is extremely important. It is, many times, the difference between opportunity being taken or being allowed to pass you by. It is also a key difference between success and failure.

Stay motivated and focused and achieve things you never thought possible.

About Earl Breon, Jr…

Earl Breon“I am passionate about leadership. From my first job as a kid, to the United States Marine Corps and through a career as a federal servant I have seen first hand the magic of great leadership as well as the tragedy of poor leadership. These hard learned life lessons are what inspired me to start blogging on the topic and help others become better leaders. My goal is to change the world by spreading leadership fundamentals in order to inspire a growth of leadership skills across all sectors. Pure and simple, the only way any problem gets solved is through effective leadership. I want to help solve problems.”

Learn more about Earl here…

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“A leader is best when people barely know he exists…”

150126 Lao TzuA recent Facebook post ranted, “Aren’t you sick of all these stupid quotes on social media?”

What good is this endless stream of one-liners considering the real challenges and problems we all face every day?

I wanted to agree and almost hit the “Like” button- but I stopped myself. I don’t agree- these words and thoughts are powerful…

…if you’re willing to do more than just tack them on your cork board.

Look beyond the quotation. Who said it? In what context? Why? What are the thoughts and ideas that framed that particular quotation?

How can you apply these thoughts in your life- today?

Some 2500 years ago, the Chinese sage Lao Tzu said:

“A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.”

Had he shared that thought today, he’d be considered a point man for the democratic theories of relationship, servant or compassionate leadership.

I always find it interesting the the more we try to “evolve” theories and styles of leadership, the more we find ourselves back at the roots…

One of the most powerful forces driving human performance is the need for meaning and purpose and the desire to be recognized for one’s contribution.

Isn’t this the basis of so many contemporary leadership styles? You engage people not by command and control, but by influencing, inspiring and revealing the best talents and abilities of others.

Isn’t this what Lao Tzu is teaching?

You can choose to stand in the spotlight and cast a shadow on your followers, or you can shine your light on others to inspire their best work- knowing that the end result is more important than personal glory.

One of the gripes about our addiction to quote sharing is that these ideas are simplistic. I’d counter that by arguing that we’re addicted to complexity- and that complexity is killing us.

Sometimes simple is best…

Sometimes these quotations are powerful because they cut through the fog. These words resonate because we need to break the inertia of complexity and actually do something.

At any given moment, that something we have to do is usually simple- not easy.

Think about Lao Tzu’s simple idea…

Effective leadership is the art of inspiring the best in others.

You accomplish that by giving full credit and appreciation to the people who get the job done.

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